Graham King

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Quote of the day: Materialism

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Summary
Christine Carter discusses that materialism, such as the desire for brand-name clothes and luxury items, stems from insecurity and is a coping mechanism for self-doubt and poor self-image. However, she argues that materialism is ineffective for achieving long-term happiness and fulfillment, as it only provides short-term relief and may eventually worsen feelings of insecurity. Carter references research from "The High Price of Materialism" and suggests that skipping the first chapter of her book "Raising Happiness" is advisable, yet recommends the book for its valuable insights into Positive Psychology research aimed at enhancing happiness, especially for new parents.

Materialism and the behaviors that go with it – desiring and buying brand-name clothes and luxury items – are symptoms of insecurity and a coping strategy used to alleviate feelings of self-doubt or bolster a poor self-image. But if what [we] are really seeking is greater happiness and fulfillment, materialism is a terrible coping method. At best it provides only short-term relief; in the long run it is likely to deepen feelings of insecurity.

From Christine Carter in Raising Happiness, referencing research in The High Price of Materialism

If you read Raising Happiness (and if you are a new parent, I recommend it), skip the first chapter, because it will put you off. The other chapters are very good, and cover key Positive Psychology research.